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How Do I Stop Over Pursuing?

They’re not interested but I can’t seem to stop chasing. She asked, “How do I choose myself when I’m chasing a guy who isn’t choosing


Why Would They Cheat in a Good Marriage?

Betrayal and infidelity leaves most of us wondering, “why?” If you type “why did they cheat on me” into Google, there are 259 million results.


Did I Overreact & End a Good Relationship?

I got reactive and prematurely ended my relationship!  Have you ever pulled the plug on a relationship and wondered whether you overreacted? Many people write


I’m Still Not Over Them

It’s been two years and I’m still caught up on my ex. What gives? You’re probably familiar with the phrase, “Time heals all wounds.” And


Why Does My Ex Still Watch My Social Media?

We live in an age of near-constant connectivity, and people often write to me and ask what it means when their ex continues to engage


Self-love, WTF does that even mean?!

A couple of years ago I was in Shavasanna after a pretty intense Kundalini class… for the non-yoga doers, I was basically just laying down


Am I ready to date?

How do we know when we’re ready to date after a breakup? There’s no exact sign or moment, and there’s a lot to process after


Why you can’t let go of your ex (and how to)

So you’re attached to someone. Maybe you two dated for awhile. Maybe you dated and kinda skipped over the whole relationship part. Doesn’t matter. What


Are there enough good men for good women?

The other day I was speaking to my friend about the realities of dating and relationships today. It only takes a glimpse into the interactions


Men are abused from the moment they’re born

Did you know that the foreskin is the same skin that forms the clitoral hood on a woman? Crazy right?! When I became aware of


Why you really can’t get hard

I was a late bloomer to the sex game. Even the concept of dating a girl scared me so much that I never had to


Why you might not be ready for the man you say you want

I spend a lot of time in coffee shops. Maybe it’s an addiction thing. I don’t mean just to coffee. I mean to people. There’s


The lies we’ve been told about sex

Slut is an extremely powerful word, isn’t it? In four letters we have managed to encapsulate all of the shaming we, as humans, connect with


The one dating conversation you’re not having that could make or break your future

When I was younger the setting of most of my teenage make-outs was far from ideal. I mean, there was a roof over my head,


Maybe life is about more than getting rich and laid

When I was nineteen I was so in love. And like it seems to always happen with great relationships at that age, she went away


Love her before she leaves you

“I had no idea things were that bad. When she left it was such a shock.” Was it really? Because I’m sure there were signs


Why I’m done with relationships

When I was twenty-seven I was in a five-year long relationship. The woman was (is) beautiful, kind, smart, athletic… she was basically perfect. But yet,