I’m using a ton of mental energy wishing things were different, and want to refocus that energy on myself.  Most of us have been there:

They’re nearly perfect, but their habit of hiding their phone from me is eroding trust in our relationship.  Question: I’m dating someone who’s near perfect

And the less common question: Why do you want to know?  In a 1996 stand-up bit, Chris Rock advises men to never ask a woman

And how to tell whether or not something is a dealbreaker. We’ve all been there: you meet someone new, there’s an amazing connection, and they

They ghosted me after we had sex. Is it worth it to reach out? Let’s say you meet someone and there’s a great connection. You’re

Let’s finally settle the age-old question of when to sleep with a new partner. First thing’s first: You can take all the time you need

The guy I’m seeing did not want to put a label on it. What gives?! QUESTION: Recently, a member of the Create the Love community

How to tell if someone’s slow replies are a red flag or a deal-breaker. A member of the Create the Love community sent in a

We just broke up and they’re already gushing about their new SO all over social media. Years ago, I went through a breakup and ran

You broke up, but they still reach out every few weeks for a hookup. What gives? You and your ex broke up, but they reach

Psychotherapist Terri Cole helps answer this age-old question. One of the best parts of my job is connecting with and learning from some seriously inspiring

The simple shift you can make to transform your relationships.  You can change your relationships immediately by doing this one thing. It doesn’t even matter

If you find yourself falling deeply in love right out the gate, you might want to read this. When is it too soon to say

What should I do if someone ghosts me after we sleep together? I read every question that comes through my inbox, and answer as many

When we get to our seat on a plane, it can feel a lot like a game of Russian Roulette. We never know who our

I don’t understand why my partner follows sexually-explicit accounts on Instagram and I’m not sure what to do. Help! Let’s say you start dating someone

They’re not interested but I can’t seem to stop chasing. She asked, “How do I choose myself when I’m chasing a guy who isn’t choosing

Betrayal and infidelity leaves most of us wondering, “why?” If you type “why did they cheat on me” into Google, there are 259 million results.

I got reactive and prematurely ended my relationship!  Have you ever pulled the plug on a relationship and wondered whether you overreacted? Many people write

It’s been two years and I’m still caught up on my ex. What gives? You’re probably familiar with the phrase, “Time heals all wounds.” And

We live in an age of near-constant connectivity, and people often write to me and ask what it means when their ex continues to engage

A couple of years ago I was in Shavasanna after a pretty intense Kundalini class… for the non-yoga doers, I was basically just laying down

How do we know when we’re ready to date after a breakup? There’s no exact sign or moment, and there’s a lot to process after

So you’re attached to someone. Maybe you two dated for awhile. Maybe you dated and kinda skipped over the whole relationship part. Doesn’t matter. What