Was I not enough for them? Here’s a pattern you see a lot in breakups: You’re in a relationship with someone who’s emotionally unavailable. You

​​I once went through a breakup that I saw coming… When the conversation finally happened, she said, “…but I’d really love to still be friends.”

Through the mirror of a relationship we discover where we’re imprisoned.  Listen: the truth is already operating in how you behave, how you treat people,

The real reason we don’t get the relationship or love we crave.  The number one reason why we don’t create the relationship we’ve always wanted

What to do when a connection disappears. Recently, a friend told me they were messaging back and forth with a new person, experiencing a great

How to know when you’re healed and ready to love again.  Some of us never let ourselves have love again. Some of us refuse to

Anything that numbs us is really treating the pain of misalignment and the pain of silencing our own expression. It can be sex, drugs, alcohol,

How Do I Get the Spark Back? You know the saying, “Nice guys finish last?” That myth came to mind after someone reached out asking

Ready for some real talk? Ready to raise the bar with me? Because I’m done shrinking, staying small, limiting my growth, and playing it safe

They slowly stopped replying and started being flakey, but why won’t they end it?  Mixed signals can be super confusing. You found someone you enjoy

How to tell if you’re overdoing it. In a secure relationship, security is defined like this: my partner’s needs matter as much as my own

Why do you get anxious when you really like someone? Speaking straight from my personal experience on this one! When I was dating and actually

I’m using a ton of mental energy wishing things were different, and want to refocus that energy on myself.  Most of us have been there:

They’re nearly perfect, but their habit of hiding their phone from me is eroding trust in our relationship.  Question: I’m dating someone who’s near perfect

And the less common question: Why do you want to know?  In a 1996 stand-up bit, Chris Rock advises men to never ask a woman

And how to tell whether or not something is a dealbreaker. We’ve all been there: you meet someone new, there’s an amazing connection, and they

They ghosted me after we had sex. Is it worth it to reach out? Let’s say you meet someone and there’s a great connection. You’re

Let’s finally settle the age-old question of when to sleep with a new partner. First thing’s first: You can take all the time you need

The guy I’m seeing did not want to put a label on it. What gives?! QUESTION: Recently, a member of the Create the Love community

How to tell if someone’s slow replies are a red flag or a deal-breaker. A member of the Create the Love community sent in a

We just broke up and they’re already gushing about their new SO all over social media. Years ago, I went through a breakup and ran

You broke up, but they still reach out every few weeks for a hookup. What gives? You and your ex broke up, but they reach

Psychotherapist Terri Cole helps answer this age-old question. One of the best parts of my job is connecting with and learning from some seriously inspiring

The simple shift you can make to transform your relationships.  You can change your relationships immediately by doing this one thing. It doesn’t even matter