Loving is an art.
It must be learned, practiced and explored.

Finally, the education you always needed.

Create The Love began as a collection of words inspired by a rock bottom. Rock bottoms are chances to meet ourselves – to touch the depths of who we truly are, buried deeply below who we were taught to be.

Today, Create The Love is a platform that guides you to design the life + love you’ve longed for, holding space for wherever you are in your journey. The most important part is, you made it here. And you are exactly where you should be.

If you’re ready to smash through old barriers, let go of unhealthy habits (from relationships, to booze, to sex, to food), establish clear boundaries, and step into the wholeness that fuels the love, relationships, passions and dreams you desire…this is a space for you.

When we remove our masks
Embrace the shadows of our past
Shift our expectations
And take time to understand ourselves and our heart….

things happen.

Take the first step into your power


There’s one waiting just for you. Make your heart make sense!

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Events & Retreats

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We’re covering all things relational. No topics off-limits!

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1:1 Coaching

Individualized support for your unique journey. It’s a thing!

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Meet Mark Groves

Human Connection Specialist

Mark Groves is the founder of Create The Love. His own rock bottom – a relationship ending – sparked his lifelong journey to turn his mess into his message. Today, Mark is a human connection specialist, speaker, writer, motivator, creator, connector and collaborator. All. The. Things. As a bridge between the academic and the human, Mark invites people to explore the good, bad, downright ugly, and beautiful sides of connection.

As he puts it: “My brain and heart are home to a lot of relationship nerding-out. Here’s the deepest truth I (currently) know: I’m not here to eff around on this planet during this lifetime. I don’t want to ‘kinda’ do things. I am here to rock the boat. I’m here to share my truth.”

Mark’s purpose? Empowering individuals to step into their power, transform the way they relate to themselves and others, and create authentic change – for a life + love they’ll look back on with a resounding “f*ck yes.”

Want more Mark?

For more deets on Mark’s story, how you can book him for keynote speaking opportunities, suggest a great podcast guest and more, hop on over to his personal website.