Can you see the light, but need a guide?

Customized, one-on-one support might be your jam!

Create The Love is a platform that guides you to design the life + love you’ve longed for, holding space for wherever you are in your journey. The most important part is, you made it here. And you are exactly where you should be.

Get connected with a coach who specializes in all things relational and connective for love and the self. Although Mark Groves isn’t accepting new clients for individualized coaching these days, he’s assembled a crew of highly endorsed coaches to guide you through your journey

The extended fam


  • Dating & Relationships
  • Couples Sessions (IMAGO Therapy)
  • Boundary Setting and Direct Communication
  • Stepping into Conscious Relationship
  • Self Expression, Authenticity and Creativity
  • Creating Purpose & Meaning

Nick Solaczek

Work With Nick

“Healing is our own responsibility. No one can do the work for us and no one can release our tight grip on the bags we are carrying, but we can be supported. We are worthy of that.”

Nick is a coach, group facilitator, public speaker and writer based in Vancouver, BC. He believes that getting to know ourselves at all our depths is an extremely important piece of cultivating self-acceptance and aligning our desires with our reality. Essentially, our relationship with ourselves determines everything else.

His work with clients is focused on stepping into authenticity, defining clear boundaries and getting more out of life. In addition, Nick is passionate about teaching the fundamentals of conscious adult relationship and empowering others in their romantic lives. The result? In short, Nick’s clients begin to see, feel, and experience what it is like to get what they want in life (and sometimes even to learn what that is for the very first time).

Through coaching, Nick believes that anything is possible, but the level of success one attains is entirely based on their willingness to move forward with their life and take action. Nick has a Bachelor’s Degree from the British Columbia Institute of Technology and has recently completed his training in IMAGO Relationship Therapy for Couples.


  • Works Exclusively With Women
  • Connecting Childhood Relational Strategies Learned In Your Family of Origin to Your Present-Day Relational Patterns
  • Build Healthy Relationships & Secure Attachment As An Adult
  • Boundaries & Self-Expression
  • Life Purpose, Fulfillment & Meaning

Kat Weed

Work With Kat

“I believe that when we dig deep and do the inner work, big shifts begin to happen and we are able to reconnect with who we truly are.”

Kat believes that there is nothing more important in life than cultivating healthy relationships with ourselves and the people we love. Her greatest passion is helping women free themselves from old and unhelpful patterns in order to know themselves in a more authentic way, which then empowers and invites deeper connections with others.

Kat began her journey home to herself over a decade ago, when she realized that she’d hit a wall in her own life. Even though she seemed like she had it “all together” on the outside (or not!), her internal experience consisted mainly of anxiety, panic, hopelessness, and most noticeably, recurring unhealthy patterns in her relationships (aka total insanity!), all of which was the result of unintegrated trauma. She decided that it was time to prioritize her relationship with herself, and made a decision to pour everything she had into her own well-being.

The first phase of her journey involved a deep dive into massage, energy work, conscious breath work and yoga trainings, all of which she spent several years practicing and teaching. While she found these practices helpful in the short term, she realized that she had to dig deeper if she wanted to get at the root of what was keeping her stuck. Shifting into the world of therapy and coaching, Kat discovered what she needed to embody all of who she was in a new way. She realized that it was her life’s purpose to guide others on their journey, so that they too could create a life rich with meaning, fulfillment and connection.

Kat holds a bachelor’s degree from Queen’s University as well as a master’s degree in Counselling Psychology from Yorkville University, and is a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors. She also has a diploma in Transpersonal Counselling Psychology from Clearmind International Institute, as well as training in Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, a body-oriented approach to working with symptoms of trauma which reside in the nervous system. She works with women online from her home in Squamish, BC, and in her spare time, she loves to mountain bike, trail run, backcountry ski, surf, travel, play music, and dance.

The fine print: Each coach’s approach and programs are uniquely theirs, and will not directly reflect Create The Love or Mark Groves materials. Rest assured, all coach affiliates are carefully selected and recommended based on their stellar abilities and skills (plus, they’re all incredible humans we’ve had the pleasure of spending time with).

Not sure if coaching is the support you need?

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Craving 1:1 coaching from Mark Groves himself?

Mark no longer offers 1:1 coaching, but he’s wrapped his incredible coaching program into a curated course just for you: Rediscover Your Wholeness. Work with Mark anytime, anywhere! This 4-week deep dive into rediscovering your wholeness includes daily check-in and instructional video messages from Mark Groves himself.

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